Friends

Didn't really have the motivation or the urge to blog lately.

Slacked the whole weekend, just din feel like doing much. Not to mention touching the projects:/
Went for some Re-live volunteer talk yesterday early morning at RJC which is pretty big.
Thank god for the kind soul who brought us there. Super disorganized, is all I can say.
And driving lesson today. Maintaining the clutch pedal takes up lots of energy. Lol.

Anyway, there are many things going around lately.
Which makes me truly realized that true friends are really hard to come by.
Even if they entered into your life, the friendship must be maintained especially with efforts from both sides which is pretty hard actually. If not what's left would be just memories. And the hurt would be more than the happy memories.
There is no one, no instrument, nothing to judge how much a person puts in how much effort, time, energy into a friendship, but should people measures how much effort and time they put in into a friendship?
If at the end of the day, the friendship turned sour, what would both parties do? or one party do? Just let this go silently or initiate to salvage the relationship before it is too late?
How many times should one try to salvage the relationship before one lets go?
Become strangers, or mere accquaintances after the friendship soured?
Great pity.

At the end of the day, I think what matters most was the process.

Cliques. I think it had become a fact which everyone was undeniably pretty comfortable with.For those with their own cliques, they are happy. The people who do not have any definite cliques hang out together.
Pretty sad, isn't it? No sense of belonging, i should say.
Some struggled to make everyone united, but to no avail, the problem is just too big, tricky and complicated, and what's most,it was left too long to be solved.

Argh, conlcusion, whenever there's people, there are problems. And relationships between people are the most difficult to tackle.


On a lighter note, there's no BD this week! heh! :D